We met at work at KYW-TV in Philadelphia, in 1987, but didn't connect back then.  Harry moved to Washington, DC when his department relocated, and he returned to KYW-TV in 1993.  In the summer of 1994 we shared a beach house in Sea Isle City, NJ, with friends.  A little magic happened.  The rest, as they say, is history.  We moved in together at the end of March, 1995.

We lived together in a townhouse in Philadelphia's historic Queen Village neighborhood for nearly 2 1/2 years.  We relocated to Southern California in the summer of 1997.  Our fairly new relationship weathered a cross country move and new jobs for both of us. For Harry it was a career change. This was probably our first sign that this relationship had a good shot of making it for the long haul.

We've settled down in Southern California.  Did the West Hollywood thing for more than a decade.  Now we're Valley Boys - but Studio City is a really nice part of The Valley, so it's okay!

They say opposites attract.  Ok, you've seen our relative heights!  Beyond that, you all know us pretty well and probably don't need more detail, except to say that there's a definite yin & yang thing going on here.

We agree on the most important stuff, and that's the glue that binds us. Most importantly we consider each other best friends.

December 7th, 2013 at Cafe La Boheme in West Hollywood.

It's a very small event and we regret that we could not invite so many people who've touched and enriched our lives.  We know you will be there in spirit and you will remain in our hearts.

For the handful of you coming in from out of town, and those of you who wish to stay near the venue after ceremony, we recommend the Ramada Plaza West Hollywood at 8535 Santa Monica Blvd.  It's just 3 blocks from Cafe La Boheme and their rates can't be beat in that part of town.  

Telephone: 310-652-6400

Since we've had a fully stocked home for years, we felt a honeymoon registry made the most sense.

We decided to return to one of our favorite romantic and relaxing spots: Provincetown, MA.  Located on Cape Cod, it's one of the original gay vacation meccas, filled with art galleries, pristine beaches, fantastic bicycle paths, fun happy hours and some of the best seafood in the world.  We celebrated our 10th and 15th partnership anniversaries in P-Town and it holds a special place in hearts.  We are delaying the trip until August, 2014, which will actually be our 20th anniversary together. Old traditions die hard.

For more details click the registry link above.